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RearFace those Babies & Toddlers!

8/12/2014

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     This is one of the few soapbox topics I have.   I vaccinate my kid (and have no problem with people who choose not to); breastfeeding is best but it doesn't work out for some people, neither mother should be shamed for their situation; and co-sleeping works for some and not others.  To each their own.  I have friends in all different places on the mommy map.  All of our kids will turn out just fine.  But, one thing I have a hard time understanding is the range of opinions on car seat safety! Apparently 3 out of 4 children are not in their seat properly or are in the wrong type of seat entirely!  The American Academy of Pediatrics now recommends rear facing until at least two, longer if the seat allows for it.  

     Below is an info-graphic from the NHTSA.  It shows the recommended age ranges.  Within each range, the farther to the right, the safer the kid.
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Birth - 12 Months
Your child under age 1 should always ride in a rear-facing car seat. There are different types of rear-facing car seats: Infant-only seats can only be used rear-facing. Convertible and 3-in-1 car seats typically have higher height and weight limits for the rear-facing position, allowing you to keep your child rear-facing for a longer period of time.

1 - 3 Years
Keep your child rear-facing as long as possible. It's the best way to keep him or her safe. Your child should remain in a rear-facing car seat until he or she reaches the top height or weight limit allowed by your car seat's manufacturer. Once your child outgrows the rear-facing car seat, your child is ready to travel in a forward-facing car seat with a harness.

4 - 7 Years
Keep your child in a forward-facing car seat with a harness until he or she reaches the top height or weight limit allowed by your car seat's manufacturer. Once your child outgrows the forward-facing car seat with a harness, it's time to travel in a booster seat, but still in the back seat.
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A Common Reason for Turning a Kid too Soon
     Believe it or not, your child is safer sitting rear-facing with their legs froggy style, criss-cross applesauce, or hanging over the sides than turning them to face forward.  There is a saying that goes along with this as well- "Cast It or Casket"
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LATCH or Belt, Not both!
     I used to think that using both the seat belt and LATCH together will secure the seat better.  In fact it works against your favor because the seat does not have any rebound or wiggle room.  Choose one or the other, if you have a choice.  In my RDX I do not have a choice.  My son's seat is in the middle so that he is away from any side impact.  The RDX does not allow LATCH borrowing.  Meaning I can only use the seat belt to install the Marathon in the middle position.  If you don't know about LATCH borrowing, he's a quick explanation.  Many cars have LATCHES on the outboard seats and not the center position.  Some cars will allow you to use the LATCH from the side seats to secure a car seat in the middle, but most do not!
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Bent legs are A-Okay!
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Britax Marathon secured by the seat belt, not LATCHES.
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What About the A/C?
We had an air flow problem, then I found out about the Noggle.  What a life saver!  If your car, van, or SUV doesn't have rear vents you can buy an attachment called the Noggle that will direct the airflow to your kiddo.  Check out my little guy with his.
And now I will step down off of my soap box and get back to regular life :)
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Cruisin' Tips

8/5/2014

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     I'm going to go over some tips and tricks for cruising with a baby or toddler.  So far we've taken my son on three cruises, yes maybe it sounds excessive but I am in the business and it is our preferred way to travel.  He has been on a 7-day Carnival Glory cruise at 10 months old, 3-day Royal Caribbean Enchantment cruise at 14 months, and a 6-day Carnival Breeze cruise at 17 months old.  We have another cruise coming up when he is 19-months and again at 20-months, both will be on Royal Caribbean Brilliance and Liberty respectively.  Each trip was a little different due to his age and facilities on the ship!  I mentioned the cruise lines above because they differed vastly in our experience and I will include that information below.  This post will be broken in to sections to make it easier to figure out what you might want to do on your cruise!

Bedtime
     Depending on your child's sleep habits this could be easy or this could be challenging!  All cruise lines will provide a crib (Carnival) or Pack n Play (Royal Caribbean).  Carnival will not set it up until you ask for it and it won't be delivered until the steward makes up your room on the first evening.  This proved to be a challenge for us because our son needed an afternoon nap.  He didn't get his afternoon nap on this most recent cruise because the crib came after dinner.  Not a fun afternoon!  On Royal Caribbean it was already set up for us in the cabin when we walked in!  On the first cruise we brought thin blankets to cover the pack n play that we brought with us, it didn't work.  My son pulled them down and played peek a boo!  The second cruise (my mom, son, and myself) we tried something new.  Magnetic hooks and a dark colored shower curtain.  It worked great!  So well, that we did the same on the third cruise.  Click on the photos below to enlarge them.
Bathtime
     This is an easy one, although it seems tricky.  Most cruise lines offer showers-only unless you're sailing in a suite.  However, there are regular staterooms on Carnival and Disney that offer something called a split-bath.  Essentially there are two bathrooms.  One is a traditional cruise ship bathroom, the other has a tub/shower combo and an additional sink.  If you score one of these cabins, you're in luck and you have a very knowledgeable travel agent ;).  We had one on our most recent cruise on the Breeze.  I LOVED it!  I brought scrubbing bubbles and cleaned the tub down prior to using it.  My son loved splashing around in the full-blown tub!
     Now you may not have the opportunity to score a tub.  That's perfectly okay!  I recommend bringing an inflatable bathtub.  We have a nice big Sesame Street one and a Summer Infant collapsible that does not need inflating.  Bringing one of these can also serve as a "pool" out on deck for your little one since non-potty trained kids are not allowed in pools or splash zones.
Pooltime
There are only a handful of ships that allow diapered children in the splash zones (Disney and Royal Caribbean).  No diapers are allowed in cruise pools.  So if you have a child who will sit still (not mine) you can use that portable bathtub as a poolside pool.  We were able to do so when my son was 10-months because we wasn't yet walking.  It was a wonderful replacement activity.
Dining
     We had a vastly different experience on the two lines when it came to dining with a little one.  Royal Caribbean wait staff was practically stumbling over each other to ensure dinner went smoothly with our son.  They had fruit ready at the table each night for him to nibble on.  This was a fabulous gesture because it occupied his time and we were able to enjoy our dinner.  On Carnival we had to order the fruit upon arrival, so the first few minutes were a challenge to get him to sit there.  If you're child will play with small toys, bring those to dinner.  I would also recommend doing My Time dining or requesting, in advance, to sit at a table on your own as to not get held up by other people.  
Strolling
Strollers onboard.  I HIGHLY recommend getting an umbrella style strollers.  I've seen it three times now with people struggling to use their full-sized strollers on cruise ships.  It's just not going to happen!  We used a First Years Ignite on the very first cruise.  It was a good inexpensive, lightweight umbrella stroller that fit perfectly in a stateroom.  A couple months later we upgraded to the Chicco Liteway because we travel often and I wanted one that reclines for my son.  Here's how they fit in tight spaces:

Kids Clubs
     Each line varies with their kids club offerings.  I urge you to check out my past entry on my business page all about the programs offered by each line HERE.  For the sake of making this shorter I will compare Carnival and Royal Caribbean due to my experience with them.
Carnival.  Camp Carnival (complimentary) begins at 2 years old.  Which is a lower age than most cruise lines offer.  However, they offer minimal engagement for kids under two.  We participated in the Open Play for the under 2 crowd on both the Glory and Breeze.  They offer "babysitting" for a few hours on port days and during Night Owls (after 10pm) at a rate of $6.25 per hour plus tip.  Carnival offers a phone to check out if your child is in the kids club, at no cost.
Royal Caribbean.  Adventure Ocean (complimentary) begins at 3 years old, but Royal Babies and Tots Nursery ($6 an hour) begins at 6 months :)  My son went to the nursery twice on our Enchantment cruise.  Once during the day and one evening.  He did great.  There were 3 babies/tots and 2 adults in the room.  They were great with my son.  They put him to sleep on a cot so he wouldn't be up past his bed time.  We also went to the open play hours.  There were a lot more things for my active toddler to play on in RB&T compared to Carnival's open play.  On some ships they issue a beeper to stay in contact, other ships have WAVE phones available to rent for the duration of the cruise, both at no charge.
In late October I will do a write-up on flying with babies & toddlers.  So check back for more.
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Cruise Control

8/4/2014

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     Well, we're back from our first official cruise, just the three of us.  Yes, we cruised back in December but we had my mom there to help us.  I also cruised with my son and mom back in May as well.  This was our first official cruise as just mommy, daddy, and kiddo!  I am happy to report that we survived the experience!! (It's a good thing because we have three cruises pending in the next 14 months.)  

     This week I will highlight some tips and tricks for traveling with a baby and/or toddler on a cruise ship.  Look out for those posts in the coming days.  I will also be doing a write up on my travel blog about the actual cruise ship experience with Carnival, onboard the Breeze, with a very active toddler!  Here are a few highlights of our trip below.

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    After teaching elementary school for nine years I was given the opportunity to stay home with my son. To learn more about what brought me to this point- read my About Nicole page.  This blog is dedicated to the adventures of being a stay at home mom and how to fill the days with fun and love.

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